Energy Update "From a Child's Eyes"

I believe and have taught my kids when a person is saying something mean about you TO YOU, what they are actually doing is projecting their own fears onto you. My daughter mentioned to her brother that she does not agree with my statement. A few weeks later I spoke to her about this. She entertained that she understands what I am saying through an example I shared. However, she still feels it is not ALWAYS the case. I took the always away with me because truth is not about always or never, truth is fulfilled on the premise things are ever changing. Later that evening I could see the difference in what I am saying and what my daughter could see. When somebody approaches us through a low emotional state: reactive, bullying, disagreeable, etc. They are projecting their shadow onto us. However, when somebody makes an observation, “Amy, you are speaking too negatively, lets change the topic.” This is what Jane could see as they are not projecting onto us but instead holding a boundary. So when you feel a social cue of somebody moving away from you to support their boundary, look at yourself too to see what energy they are naturally responding to within you. But if they are blaming you, “putting something on you (scape goating) “you were this or that”, remember it comes from them, its not yours but theirs. Listen to children they have ample points to make. I find when I meet my kids in what they have to offer, our relationship foundation is then based on mutual respect and that is a win/win for this altruistic heart!

Energy Update "Crossroad"

“Crossroads” Heck, sometimes life can just seem like it takes a form all its own. We may feel things are chaotic, out of control. For many of us this ends up with us experiencing anxiety or the attachment to outcome. Right now many of us feel this is a place to make change and create some new patterns through choices & decisions to create a catalyst in our lives, but how? The chaos rages inside. The duties, commitments and relationships we connect to have needs that want to be met. We are good to others but perhaps we don’t get the same in return or this is how it seems. Let all this go for a minute. Now free, how would you choose to feel inside? Feel that for a moment. Smile if this feeling pleases you, yes, make your co-workers jealous! This feeling? Keep that in your pocket all of the time, or in your heart. You can do it! This feeling is you constantly, at each turn choosing you over choosing to please. It opens you with no effort to manifestation because when we have no resistance in us? Things come easily. This is where we are supposed to stay, not through force and pretending it is so but intending it is so. The difference with intending is we are allowing. I believe choosing what we want at this juncture it is about choosing how we long term want to feel, then staying in the moment to achieve the long-term effect. We hear a lot about staying present. A big part of staying present is allowing ourselves to see the perfection in what we have, where we are and who we are now. See, if we were supposed to learn it all at once we would. A mantra I’ve carried for many years but find especially helpful now is “You can have it all, just not all at once.” We are incubating many of us, the ideas, attitudes of who we really are so we become it. This practice takes quiet and patience. It takes us (like my article several weeks ago) putting ourselves first and then seeing where, in truth, others fit into our lives. We then allow people around us to realign and that is a gift from us, not something mean we are doing to another. We are now consciously choosing to empower others in place of enabling them. This is our divine nature as I see it. When we believe in others enough for them to care for and love themselves we can let go and allow this to fully bloom in them, for them. The impact it has on us is also a win. So at this crossroads, find your footing in the moment.