Energy Update: Taking on the Energy of Other People

For years people have told me they pick up the energies of other people. I look at us as responsible for ourselves so that energies are “clinging onto us” has been a challenge to my understanding. However, I was begging the question around this and the answer revealed itself. As children we looked to our parents for cues on what is safe and what is not. There are many studies, which have taken a visual patterned surface and a baby and placed them on it. The child will glance to the parent for cues that it is safe to crawl across this varying visual surface. Based on the parent’s response the child will react and move or stay. This is how parents could play live chess! As we grow older we look for social cueing from our parents. Our parents didn’t always know and maybe had odd rules around this for themselves via their own insecurities. This is where dysfunction comes in. So, if we are unsure about our self? We look to others for social cueing and for how we “fit”. Thus, when we pick up others energies we are looking to others for our validation. (This differs in the place where there is a “Vampire Archetype” or a chronic complainer). Stop looking around and be with you. Many or all of you reading this are empathic and you may see this differently than how I’ve stated it here. I have to stress the tipping point is you are not a victim of the energy of others. You are leaving yourself open to this by trying to size up “what mama thinks of you.” We ultimately seek validation and love from a mother and father figure, something most of us didn’t receive. We can now allow ourselves to love our self fully and replace this need and experience with self-acceptance on all levels. Love you and you’ll be able to love everybody else too!

Energy Update "Inner Child Begone Spray"

What? Ok, so coming out of August and Sept we were dealing with our inner child. I define that simply as the part of us that knows we’re eternal and feels like it can do no wrong (not through arrogance but self love). If you are struggling, ask yourself, “Do I feel like I have the world by the tail?” If not, your inner child needs some excitement in the way of applying your spirit to living. Think of how children run around in an open space, one minute they are a horse, the next they are a pig, then an airplane. This type of flowing creativity is what the child thrives upon. Get it! Don’t know how? Ask, “What would it look like for adult me to have a fulfilled inner child?” Watch for signs. You might be at the grocery store and you think about bowling with canned goods. While you can’t actually act on this, entertain the idea of what it would feel and look like to do so. If you have children of your own, bring them in the mix. My son and I go shopping together and one incentive for him to come with me is that if we hear a young child make sounds we silently mimic what the child would look like while making these sounds. My son and I laugh so hard. It is harmless but very PLAYFUL! We might want our inner child to sit silently, obediently but how about encouraging the inner play in our self to allow both the adult and the child to merge and express? Lastly, to many of you I have said, “In 10 years the reader I’ll be.” I’ve recently felt another layer of reading open to me. I have identified my sweet spot in reading as working with relationships and career. I have found a new tool to look at what people’s true purpose in career is and it is proving amazing results for my clients. If you are struggling with your career, please consider working with me to gain clarity. I think the info has been revealed because it is time for people to step into these rolls. I’ve found for the clients with, which I’ve read around this topic, the guidance on how to get there is as clear as what they are to be doing! The universe has provided simple steps, which are highly attainable for each of these clients. Never underestimate the power of how you word a question! A simple wording change made all of the difference and taught me how to open this specific door more fully. And? It was inspiration from my inner child, from the play within me, which developed the question! A 30 minute reading would be plenty to get solid information about your career. Consider taking me up on the "Gift Certificate" discounted reading as a gift to yourself this holiday season! www.intuitivepathfinder.com

Energy Update "Hang in there People!"

Hang in there people! Experiencing some intensity? Sorry to say some of us just are. There is a cycle coming in (or extended for some) that looks like it will free up in April. I don’t mean to be a downer but this is to ease the hearts of those in the struggle. So if this is you, take a breath! We are being asked to release ourselves from still something, which sticks. The story arc here is about letting go, trusting, non-attachment and putting yourself first. We may have been working a long time toward things and wonder why they still don’t quite take. There is a greater reason for this, which I’ll share in a second. However, our efforts are good if its passion we follow. I know too well the hard work, the effort, the confusion, the bliss and again confusion. If you’ve read with me and dimensionality came up, I had no take on it. However, since then the information has come in and I define dimensionality as ideas beyond what we knew before. It is simply now we have a broader perspective beyond what we could work with in the past. Here’s the rub! This information was taken from the book The Intellegent Heart Transform your life with the laws of love and it states, ”The difficulty with the middle fourth dimensional energy (defined as our ability to understand what we do and think impacts what comes our way-more or less what we understand as the law of attraction) involves a lot of process and very little of it manifests into the 3rd dimensional world. We find ourselves forever working it out, processing it, getting in touch with it, praying about it. We do change our relationship to whatever it is, but that change does not always bring great changes in our lives. Breakthroughs bring us demonstrations but not substantial shifts in real time that are sustainable. This is not the fault of anything that is done at this level. This is the way the energy is structured at the middle fourth dimension. This energy does not easily penetrate the density of the 3rd dimension. Therefore, it takes a lot of work over time to bring the changes into manifestation and often we seem to go one step forward and two steps back. Please not the upper fourth dimension is a place from which it is quite simple to manifest things. In weaker moments, stopping the thinking and saying to your self, “Stay present”. We need to once and for all stop the running mind. One of my friends calls it the “twirling mind”. We may be feeling like we have one foot in a peaceful place among the chaos and one in the anxiety and heat of it. Rise up by allowing space for reflection and release. Remembering this life is a construct for learning and working to see the truth about who you are can satisfy when things get too serious for us in our heads. A quick run through of the coming energy. About the second week of January the energy will shift to what looks a bit like lack. Then we’ll get a reprieve in early February. Honor that shift but know that there is more that’s coming and embracing non-attachment while in this seeming whirlwind is going to serve you as the shift occurs. Later Feb will be a bit dry and March will be trying. However, things open up in April so stop and enjoy life when things are lean, be with YOU! Success is had when we behave like children! It’s like a big snowstorm you can go play in it or resist it.