Energy Update "From a Child's Eyes"

I believe and have taught my kids when a person is saying something mean about you TO YOU, what they are actually doing is projecting their own fears onto you. My daughter mentioned to her brother that she does not agree with my statement. A few weeks later I spoke to her about this. She entertained that she understands what I am saying through an example I shared. However, she still feels it is not ALWAYS the case. I took the always away with me because truth is not about always or never, truth is fulfilled on the premise things are ever changing. Later that evening I could see the difference in what I am saying and what my daughter could see. When somebody approaches us through a low emotional state: reactive, bullying, disagreeable, etc. They are projecting their shadow onto us. However, when somebody makes an observation, “Amy, you are speaking too negatively, lets change the topic.” This is what Jane could see as they are not projecting onto us but instead holding a boundary. So when you feel a social cue of somebody moving away from you to support their boundary, look at yourself too to see what energy they are naturally responding to within you. But if they are blaming you, “putting something on you (scape goating) “you were this or that”, remember it comes from them, its not yours but theirs. Listen to children they have ample points to make. I find when I meet my kids in what they have to offer, our relationship foundation is then based on mutual respect and that is a win/win for this altruistic heart!