Set Your Everchanging Pace Based on You!

Thank goodness for Daylight Savings this coming weekend! Yipeee! And....it moves us into our theme so very well...... The theme this week is how to operate at "your pace" which is surely at times or often a different pace than those around you. I think the main idea here is relaxing into who you are and if you're doing this in alignment with you, you will for sure be moving at your unique pace. So if we move at our own pace how do we do this among others moving at different paces? We drop judgment and allow discernment "I know this is a good pace for me today" (or now, etc.) accept our pace and let go of anything we can't accomplish while operating at our own pace. This type of alignment will offer you more time as the Universe responds to your action based on the law of attraction. It also will bring you some peace to go at your pace and allow the space and time you need to do things while present, versus pushing or just shutting down. Now how do we deal with others who are setting different paces for us? Hold boundaries, share perspectives about your needs by describing how you work best, today and for this situation. For larger projects look at past experience to set realistic guidelines of how you flow when working in a more in depth way. Leave justifying your use of time out of it when holding boundaries with others. This is a cousin of insanity! Never reason with children or somebody who wants you to do something, just give them a guideline and keep communication open as you need to shift what energy you're giving. Now get out there and give it a go, live at your pace in each moment!

Energy Update Consistency and its Contrast

I am inspired to write about consistency and its contrast inconsistency. My article will show these definitions in action, as an example, not as a direct definition because I am retrieving the information using clairvoyance and this is the format in which it came-I'm going with it! When I impart clairvoyance I see a train running over a track where there is a gap at points and something has to bridge the gap. However, the sensation I feel while looking is not at all like riding on a train. It is instead like a fast up and down motion the type of ride that makes your stomach rise and fall from a pushing and pulling movement. The movements are consistent but the depth at which they rise and fall differ and anticipation of this action is not discernible ahead of the experience. Ride the wave people! So, the message I am picking up ties in with last week's theme. Don't bridge the gap! Do this so that the truth can be seen and faced. Its ok for the train to fall off the track because then it will be noticed and supported. Perhaps better tracks must be built in place of you holding the tracks together to make them appear like they are seamless and there is no problem. I just read an astrological update a few days ago asking us to balance in work and rest. I feel what I've just stated follows this energy pattern. If you stop holding the tracks, what will you make time for in your own life? Is this shift simply you offering for everybody involved to be in balance? There may be a time of discomfort but what we really can focus on is that in time the truth will flesh out if we can let go of holding it all together. Hold your part of the situation with love. Stand in love for the other places and people who need to step up. Know inside you, doing this type of act is an act of love.

Trusting your needs to guide you

As I ask what to write about this week a calm comes over me and the message is about trust. Defining trust I suspect the majority of us tend to think about how we relate to others before thinking about how trust can be defined by us. Lets remove the lens about our trust of another or its contrast, betrayal and look instead for how we can work with trust as a tool to sharpen the reflex of our own intuition and in this case, needs. As I write this I am realizing how trust is a good example of the shift from Masculine to Feminine and from victim to empowerment. We are learning to claim what we need and allow the space for it to occur, in place of taking action to “make it happen”. So how do we claim our needs while relating to others and have them shift in alignment, while still meeting their own needs? If we put trust in those places we think will not work and release trying to get things to work a certain way, they will. This is not an all or nothing process, it’s about “finesse”. For example a statement such as, "I prefer "X" and I trust that will come my way.” Then we let it go. If thought or frustrations surface around this need, keeping our focus on what we do indeed want is a good way to support the outcome. If we align with our needs, they too can align. We know relationships change. Can we now then define a relationship as; what the two or more involved agree upon? Experiencing this with my spouse has allowed us to define our own relationship based on each of our needs. An example of this is in 2006 my desire was to be able to leave our home to work a part time evening job and have my husband be able to flow into what needed to be completed. Over time I asked gently if he could look to see if there was wet laundry in the washer, to peek in the laundry hamper. Over time we’ve worked it where we flow together. This is an ideal for me while relating to another. I feel as if we both take ownership in our home life and this makes me feel supported. Is it perfect? No, at points it is but then a new preference appears and so I realign by asking for support in a new way. I choose them to release any frustration this has caused in the past (forgiveness, releasing myself from being a victim) and use my power of intention to visualize him supporting this new task. Sometimes the stakes are higher and remembering most people who act out are doing so based on outmoded beliefs, fear and/or shame. What they really want is to be freed from just these beliefs! So when you allow your needs to be met you are allowing them to align and have their own needs. What I’m saying here is when we meet our needs, we allow others to balance to alignment. Thus, we stop enabling them and allow them to grow and really be who they are. So, trust you today, choose your needs and literally make the world a better place!

"Disarray" This week's Energy Update

Sorry, this week is a little self-serving being that I know none of you have this problem! It may seem I'm about to write a spooky story based on the topic and while it is nearing Halloween, I find this problem haunts me year-round! How about you? It’s those piles that lurk in the kitchen, in the office and on my desk. These piles are not dust bunnies where there actually is a real chance of inherent danger from dust mites. These piles are the bills, forms from school, junk mail, etc. that seem to come in an endless stream. I just got a pink sheet home from school whose writing had a likeness to embossing which read "2nd FORM HOME". Do you think she was actually, making a reference to E.T. and meant to write 2nd Phone Home? One can only hope. The balance between the piles and the real are I want my focus need to be kept in perspective. However, when I don't, it comes down to DISARRAY! This is the word that came up for this week. Being a creative, I know clearing our space is an essential part of the creative process and if we are all creators, this is something we all have to face in order to make room for creation. Part of this creative force carries us day to day so we must have space cleared. BUT when it comes to piles and piles, what do we do? We can do several things. Pull two catalogs and call to unsubscribe. Clear one closet each week. It is almost the holidays, that sweater or child's toy you give away might make somebody very happy. Unsubscribe to 5 non-essential email newsletters, don't worry I know this one won't be included and if it is? Then I know you needed to do it! “Law of attract” more time. Tell yourself, "I have enough time." THEN.....and this is the most difficult part, GIVE YOURSELF THE TIME TO FUEL UP AND CREATE! Focus people! Let the piles that keep coming in have less focus. If we live it, it will change into what we want. This topic is one dipped in shame for me, a big bug-a-boo in my life! I hope it serves you as a reminder to let go. Even if the teacher sends a madly written 2nd notice, you can recognize you were focusing on what you want and that is an okay reason for a second notice!

Newsletter Post "Risk"

When I asked the Universe what this week's theme was for the newsletter, the word which came up was "Risk". No, not "Rick" the boy I dated who began with an "rrrrrr" and ended in an "ick"-not him. RISK! I think it is a good topic because right away it seemed to make me feel uncomfortable! Here's what I came up while feeling out "risk". Where do we find the sweet spot inside? Where does risk encourage us greater than fear that can hold us back, even debilitate us? Some time ago I read, "In order to make it in your career, you need to be around those who are making it." I think this sounds great but FEAR always won out for me. Why would they want to know me? What do I have to offer them? (I know you can all recognize these questions I've asked above as the beliefs which sabotage us). What I am realizing is that if you step into the risk, you'll know if they're the ones as you start to get to know them. Those "ones" may change and shift but its you who has your hand at the helm. You choose how you frame it and honestly how these people or this situation fits. In life we need mentors, examples of the person we wish to grow to be. The hardest beliefs may come in the form of "I'm just not ready." If this is the case, set a timeline or goal so you stick with the original plan. Or just jump in and forget about being "ready". Watch Good Will Hunting to bolster your power in "being ready". Even if you end up on a road that seems totally wrong, I guarantee if you keep putting yourself in the way of risk, you'll bump around until you find your people, your support, your YOU. Sometimes the beauty of bumping around is that you get tidbits of goodness, information and growth that in hindsight are priceless!