Energy Update "Collapse"

Energy Update This week is "Collapse" Okay, there is a lot to say this week. Lately, I've shared with some of you my sense is November 2013 to early April 2014 we are working on self- forgiveness, self-acceptance and self-love. In this we face the thing which may be hardest for us to embrace, US. Shadows out people! Get the mirror and turn it on yourself! You can do this! If you find your soul journey boat is in these self forgiveness waters, here are some tools to help you along the way. When somebody acts toward us in a way we don't like they are likely showing us our shadow (the parts of us we reject.) Holding boundaries is one way to remedy this. Another way is to stage a pseudo conversation with them. Pretend to play both parts, you and them. Pretend to be reactive with them blaming them for how they treated you. What would you say? If you can figure this out you can identify what parts of you, you are rejecting. Get into it if you are able to do so. Get angry, the more angry and worked up you get the more likely you are to sputter out the root issue, so go to it, collapse the story! The concept of Collapse I am speaking about is from Radical Forgiveness taught by Colin Tipping. Reinvent yourself is an easy way to sum up what I am about to say. Where you are stuck, make vast changes, reel in your sails and set a new course but only do this in the areas of your life which are not flowing for you. You release all status as a victim and in place of this are empowered. I'm grateful for the tool that is Radical Forgiveness. It changed my whole perspective on how we relate to one another as humans and it's definitely taught me about compassion. It also taught me that Source Energy, God, or Universal Energy is on my side and these people who have co-created so much upset have done so for us both to learn and grow. This is a much more powerful view and position on adversity. I'll also note, there are many ways to approach this aspect of forgiving, letting go and allowing. Radical Forgiveness isn't the only way. Many of us in the mid-west hold the belief "conflict makes us unlovable". So touching into these parts of ourselves might make us feel like our whole life will collapse if we do it. I can tell you just the opposite will occur. Another source for me to remind myself to hold my own power is the teaching of Anita Moorjani. You can watch her speak on Youtube. Anita had a near death experience and shares from this, "It is only our magnificence we need to remember and feel to heal ourselves and to manifest our desires." I now understand this as an extension for what Collin taught me about collapsing the story and reframing it. This is a way we see "under the veil" (what drives the person to act or react toward us as they do/did). What is real is love, not the story that is held up to hide somebody from love. Meaning, we can see the other person's plight, circumstance and have compassion for them. We may hold a boundary or just flow with them because now we understand what motivated them to treat us as they did. And we remember we are magnificent so only love can touch our lives. While this seems like a big thing it actually is so simple that it seems impossible to apply. Remember when we're going through these belief changes we cycle through the "The Myth, Mystery and the Miracle". This is a good tool to allow yourself some grace and non-attachment while changing a belief. The "Myth" is the belief which we recognize no longer serves us. We let go of the belief and step into the Mystery, a place where we are awkwardly bumping around a bit to figure out our replacement belief. We may find people who really love us cannot hear what we say on this topic, its as though we are alone with it. This is of purpose so we can form the new belief without influence outside of ourselves. Then comes the Miracle, the point at which you hit a platform of giving up the old story, you've broken the pattern! Now others around you will sort out their energy to align with yours, watch for people saying things to you that show you they are taking what you were carrying before you changed the belief. This part always makes me giggle a bit when I see it! Revel in it, you did it! I hope these tips help you in the inner journey to self love. To go deeper with this consider having a reading so you can get to the bottom of sticking points, turn your sails and flow onward!

Energy Update "Positive Thinking"

Energy Update Positive thinking! We've all heard it, we've all tried it, however, if you want to master manifestation, you've got to empower it in your life. Start by thinking positively! The most powerful thing is for us to remember we have choices, we have the power to change a situation. Readings influence these articles and this week's readings had to do with projecting out to the world what we desire next, in place of the fear and worry of what might be. Don't throw life to the wind thinking you have not power in it. Engage! Here are some ways to do so- We can choose, in the worst of situations to look at the positives. I've been doing this since the holidays and saw an increase in the things I wanted in my life. However coming into this week I could feel a change, a force banging the drum over my positivity into my negative voice. Recognizing it I decided to work with it at points to see how I could impact it. Sometimes it was fierce and toppled me. If this voice topples you, are you overly tired? Have you eaten well? Have you gotten enough down time? I ask these questions because sometimes the voice gets louder the more we deprive our needs or allow others to take our power. Think about it! Small steps! If we believe there is not enough time to do what we want, we must then tune our dial to "There is plenty of time for me to complete everything". If you keep expressing this message, you will find the extra time comes. If it is not right away, let go.....give it a chance! Be grateful when you see it happen. You must believe that what you really want to be or do is just a thought away and that that thought builds off of each next thought and if we think the dynamic thoughts about what we want they are likely to come in dynamic ways. Feel it inside as though what you want is already happening. Just fake it 'til you make it! One additional tidbit...... Stand up as a parent, grandparent, teacher, etc. to learn healthy boundaries with children so neither child nor ourselves are drained of energy. For people who spend time around children visit www.loveandlogic.com Simple methods that leave your child's, grandchild's, friend's child, student's, etc. soul intact.

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This week's post is about Limiting Beliefs, we've all got 'em! I mean, I don't but everybody else does. Erhem. (Clearing throat because I am lying) Last week I asked for a lot of support in several directions in my life. I need some catalysts to help me move in directions, lets face it, where I keep getting stuck. I know a way to prime this pump on my own is to be resourceful. When I travel I best tap into this by "working with what I have". This makes me feel relaxed and inspires me because I see the joy in creating whatever I need out of something other. A new outfit emerges due to spilled mustard. You reach into the resources at hand and see what you can make of it. Are you with me creators? Yes you are! However, I am recognizing through a series of patterns which translate to insanity, in my daily life I fail this attribute miserably! So, I had to ask myself some questions. Why in daily life do I struggle to be as resourceful in this same way as when I travel? Because I judge it and hold expectations. Why? Because I feel trapped. Why? Because of routine. So it was that easy for me to see the pattern I've perpetuated to keep the insanity flowing. Ick. Now the antidote came out of what I was judging. I realized to prime the pump in the areas of my life which need igniting I'd have to visit what held me back. I realized I need more connection and power with art. The limiting belief was "I can't play or take the time to create a relationship with art." So I asked myself to make art each day. I added an additional day to my week where I would focus on making art outside of my home. I also asked for support from a savvy eye in the field where I'd like my art to head and if they'd use a cattle prod and ease me along the narrows of the killing chute. Wait, wrong story! I was trying to see if you were awake! I asked for support. I asked through being vulnerable and honest and a good thing happened because they said "Yes." I always worried somebody else would take credit for my creative savvy but this too is just a limiting belief from my childhood. To take these examples one step further, they can translate into peace and joy. If we follow who we really are, surpass what we thought was not available and accept that if we ask in steps, we can achieve almost anything. The real benefit is when we pass this last step and relax in place of trying, we really hit gold. For me when I travel, I am certain to meet nearly everybody within my radius without even trying. I've gone to events where small groups convene in between speakers where I act as the waiting room "emcee" and get each person to share their connection to life and they don't even know it but everybody feels a little better. For I am a connector and if I place myself where I am to be and I release judgment, I am golden. Give yourself the gift of gold. Let somebody sit at your extra space at your table, stand up for the person who needs the seat on the bus. It is not your kind action but your open heart that will bring awe into your life. I know you're dying for more but that is what next week is for people! Enjoy your heart and life until them.

Energy Update Stand your ground

Upcoming Events- Vision Board Workshop $10 *This Weekend! Sign up today! Saturday January 11th 9:30-12:30pm Come create a focused or transformational vision board! Supplies provided, enjoy some snacks and a little guidance to create your vision for the coming year. Whether it be in relationships, career, health or the creative forces within you who are ready to escape......let it roar in this visual format. A great event for a group of friends, family members or come solo! Please RSVP via email to let me know you're coming. Afternoon Psychic Salon Saturday January 11th 1:30-5pm Up to 5 people can join in for a group reading, each may ask 3 questions. This lovely event will be held in St Paul at my studio space in Lowertown. Come ready for some fun and enlightenment. $50 per person. SALON FULL Engaging Intuition Workshop $75 Saturday Feb 22nd 9-2:30pm For those of you tapping into your psychic ability or its tapping into you and you have no clue what to do with it, this workshop is for you! Learn to turn on and off your ability to read energy. Learn what to trust and what to let go. We'll do a short guided "journey" (similar to a meditation), make a mandala to practice reading with another participant and do some practice readings with each other, time permitting. (This will be with the use of tools). A one hour follow up reading about two weeks after this event is recommended for the purpose of asking questions and to verify information or get a handle on why you are seeing certain things when you read. Email me to sign up- intuitivepathfinder@gmail.com *New* Conversations and Readings $5 Saturday February 22nd 4-7pm This is an opportunity for you to practice reading for others in an open, experimental, non-judgmental environment! Come sit and converse with others about psychic experiences or concerns about bridging the human experience with this spiritual life. Or come read with one another or in a small group-you choose! I'll be there to answer questions and support you. Please RSVP to me if you're planning on making it. I need a minimum of 8 people signed up to host this event. This week the topic is standing your ground. This has all to do with self love. Over the holidays my inner world was rocked. Issues with family I'd internally addressed since 2005 were absolved. I could live freely being the puzzle piece which had always come from a different box. My power is now known in this arena. I can love freely, even to the disgust of my husband and awe of my sister who sees our family exactly the same way. They wonder how and why I'd even strive to love these two people. I can. The real power in it is I know who I can and cannot be for them and with them. My position is to hold love for them while following my boundaries so I am able to maintain a consistent stream of love for these two people. I’ve let go of those who have hurt me the most and now can love them. Honestly, I think they were a blocking mechanism to visiting the real core issue. Self love and self reliance. My acupuncturist just told me last week I need to practice this stance of stomping my foot on the ground in an outward motion. What is he asking me to do? Hold my space, affirm my confidence, hold my power among intensity. What came next was a visit to a doctor who shamed, belittled and barns-waggled me. I went back the next day and took my power back. An eagle in a tight circle over head on my way to the original appointment let me know power was on the table. When you, yourself encounter this type of information, work with it, trust its there for you or you wouldn't have seen it at all. I also recognize in this I wanted support from people who couldn't give it. I now know I need to find a broader resource to meet my needs and where I can in time be fully self reliant. I need to change patterns in a large way to restore my health and bring the fun and play I so very much need into my life. In already making some of these changes, the Universe brought more very unexpected support. I am headed in the right direction because life is supposed to be effortless like this. Where do you need to stand your ground? Are you doing things for yourself or for others? Where can you explore self love? I encourage you to trust you and make some small changes in your favor. Watch because the outcome will be divine!