Energy Update "Putting Self First"

“Putting Self First” This topic has come up a lot lately! How do we put ourselves first? Our society says its wrong to put you first. I think our hearts know what’s right, when and how, so the first step is tuning into how you feel. If we choose only to listen to society we will stay in a blocked relationship with self, OUR SELF. Feeling indebted to others such as “You have to go or do or be” or beating yourself up for not going is another way to play into this definition by society. Instead decide in the moment what is right for you, act on it and stay with the decision. Don’t go back and beat yourself up later, staying with the decision means you will never go back and judge it. Instead grow from it, you can always make a different choice next time (this concept connects to abundance). This also is you learning how to hold your power for the “inside job”…..to please and fill you. If you find your current circumstances unpleasing, maybe you don’t have enough people around you who understand you right now, there is no support or you feel alone. We all feel this at points. It really is you getting happy with where you are right now that opens the BIGGEST door to staying present, which in turn fills you with peace. You don’t have to trick yourself but shift your perception. If this is hard, set up a reading so you have more tools to work with it. Focus for you on “what is”. A way to think about this is getting to an event and realizing you are not really ‘able’ to be there. Choose how to manage your energy while you’re there. You may choose to rise up and be the life of the party, then choose to have a quiet afternoon the next day. It’s about displacing our energy at points but there is NO MORE PUSHING! It’s about tuning in at each turn to keep the body, soul and mind operating on the same page. Make sure you are present for YOU in each situation you choose. We need to only be doing one task at a time. Be present in the task and you’ll find it more enjoyable for sure!