A way to Reverence, finding "What is" in life

Today I want to talk about an abstract topic, "What is" and "What isn't" The reason I want to talk about this is when I asked for a word to start my writing the word that came up was Reverence. I went to write about it and everything I wrote led me to the importance of us (humans) always choosing the energetic space of "What is". See when we choose "What is" I've personally found a lot of reverence or deep respect for someone or something. So let me try to explain how to choose "what is" in your life and show you through a few lenses. This is an abstract topic because it is a practice of recognizing "What Is and What Isn't" knowing it takes time but when you really get there, what you achieve is quickly seeing behind the veil of the situation and that is where the reverence comes in to play! LITERALLY PLAY! Ever meet a real vampire? No, probably not. How about a Vampire archetype? (An archetype is a very typical example of certain personality traits) A Vampire is a person who drains your energy by complaining or they try to rope you into their mess so you feel sorry for them. They much of the time approach with a seemingly unsolvable problem and do this purely to get attention with no intention to resolve the issue. They are compensating, living in what isn't and they're likely doing this because they've learned this might be their only value as a means to getting attention. We might call them the "Manipulative Victim". They can't seem to figure out how to make change in their life so they decide to cast their confusion and dissatisfaction outwardly directing it toward other people. Yes, we all have met these people. Maybe at times we've even played this role. I know I have. (That's what self- forgiveness is for!) What I recommend to loose this type of energy from getting near yours is to live in "what is". So what does that mean? Living in "What is" means following what moves you forward, what supports YOU. As a tool you could ask yourself this question in reference to a situation where you're unsure you want to place energy, "Is this what is?" To double check it you may ask the opposite, "Is this what isn't?" When we live in what isn't we are leading our lives with a mask on, we aren't being us. When it comes to something with a lot of intensity or confusion such as death, this "what was" approach can be very powerful. When we actually peel back the layers beyond what our relationship looked like, especially with people who were challenging for us on earth, we can see the real gold. Short bouts of intense emotion may surface when we take this approach. If we allow the feelings to come and encourage them, they layers which peel back will reveal the truth about the good purpose of their being in our life for our growth. I look at it as we can see them for "what indeed was". This allows us a new understanding of them in our lives and gives freedoms to our grief. To learn more about this topic watch for my downloadable manifestation audio. I hope to have this and more offerings by the end of February 2014.