Energy Update "Collapse"

Energy Update This week is "Collapse" Okay, there is a lot to say this week. Lately, I've shared with some of you my sense is November 2013 to early April 2014 we are working on self- forgiveness, self-acceptance and self-love. In this we face the thing which may be hardest for us to embrace, US. Shadows out people! Get the mirror and turn it on yourself! You can do this! If you find your soul journey boat is in these self forgiveness waters, here are some tools to help you along the way. When somebody acts toward us in a way we don't like they are likely showing us our shadow (the parts of us we reject.) Holding boundaries is one way to remedy this. Another way is to stage a pseudo conversation with them. Pretend to play both parts, you and them. Pretend to be reactive with them blaming them for how they treated you. What would you say? If you can figure this out you can identify what parts of you, you are rejecting. Get into it if you are able to do so. Get angry, the more angry and worked up you get the more likely you are to sputter out the root issue, so go to it, collapse the story! The concept of Collapse I am speaking about is from Radical Forgiveness taught by Colin Tipping. Reinvent yourself is an easy way to sum up what I am about to say. Where you are stuck, make vast changes, reel in your sails and set a new course but only do this in the areas of your life which are not flowing for you. You release all status as a victim and in place of this are empowered. I'm grateful for the tool that is Radical Forgiveness. It changed my whole perspective on how we relate to one another as humans and it's definitely taught me about compassion. It also taught me that Source Energy, God, or Universal Energy is on my side and these people who have co-created so much upset have done so for us both to learn and grow. This is a much more powerful view and position on adversity. I'll also note, there are many ways to approach this aspect of forgiving, letting go and allowing. Radical Forgiveness isn't the only way. Many of us in the mid-west hold the belief "conflict makes us unlovable". So touching into these parts of ourselves might make us feel like our whole life will collapse if we do it. I can tell you just the opposite will occur. Another source for me to remind myself to hold my own power is the teaching of Anita Moorjani. You can watch her speak on Youtube. Anita had a near death experience and shares from this, "It is only our magnificence we need to remember and feel to heal ourselves and to manifest our desires." I now understand this as an extension for what Collin taught me about collapsing the story and reframing it. This is a way we see "under the veil" (what drives the person to act or react toward us as they do/did). What is real is love, not the story that is held up to hide somebody from love. Meaning, we can see the other person's plight, circumstance and have compassion for them. We may hold a boundary or just flow with them because now we understand what motivated them to treat us as they did. And we remember we are magnificent so only love can touch our lives. While this seems like a big thing it actually is so simple that it seems impossible to apply. Remember when we're going through these belief changes we cycle through the "The Myth, Mystery and the Miracle". This is a good tool to allow yourself some grace and non-attachment while changing a belief. The "Myth" is the belief which we recognize no longer serves us. We let go of the belief and step into the Mystery, a place where we are awkwardly bumping around a bit to figure out our replacement belief. We may find people who really love us cannot hear what we say on this topic, its as though we are alone with it. This is of purpose so we can form the new belief without influence outside of ourselves. Then comes the Miracle, the point at which you hit a platform of giving up the old story, you've broken the pattern! Now others around you will sort out their energy to align with yours, watch for people saying things to you that show you they are taking what you were carrying before you changed the belief. This part always makes me giggle a bit when I see it! Revel in it, you did it! I hope these tips help you in the inner journey to self love. To go deeper with this consider having a reading so you can get to the bottom of sticking points, turn your sails and flow onward!